BDSM Practices by MISTRESS AMYRA - From Soft to Hard

BDSM - Control, Submission and Surrender

BDSM - an acronym for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission and Sadism & Masochism. BDSM is much more than just a form of eroticism. It is an intense experience of emotions and profound physical and psychological experiences. I, Mistress Amyra Chaymari, offer you the opportunity to experience the power of dominance and submission (D/s).
An experience based on the strict division of roles of power and submission.

My control over you allows you to experience what it means to give your control to me and surrender to my dominance. Through my BDSM practices you will learn that giving up your control and surrendering to this situation gives you a freedom that only someone who is familiar with this subject can understand.

Every encounter with me is based on mutual consent. Only under this premise can the experience between Mistress and Sub be holistically fulfilling and enriching. Taking SSC (safe, sane and consensual) into account, I open up a space for you and myself that allows fantasies to become reality.

Maybe it's the power imbalance that stimulates your imagination, or finding out and exceeding your limits. In any case, you will and should experience that BDSM is more than just a game. It is a kind of dance between control and surrender. A temporary losing and yet also finding.

So dance for me. Dance on my stage and find out how intense and deep the connection between a Mistress and her sub can and should be.

Extract From my BDSM Practices

BDSM offers a wide range of practices and techniques. A variety of possibilities that can turn every session into a different experience. As your Mistress, I will show you a realm that makes it possible to explore bizarre fantasies and ideas. The following are possible practices that you can experience with me:

Bondage and fixation

Bondage is more than just a BDSM practice in which the sub is tied up. It is also a fixation of your mind on the absolute moment. It doesn't matter whether I do this with ropes, leather cuffs or plastic wrap, for example. Subs often tell me that this kind of surrender to a mistress also creates a feeling of inner peace and security. This defencelessness therefore involves much more than just your submission and my dominance.

Discipline and education

For me, discipline and education is the most important aspect of BDSM. Fulfilling your role as a sub in the best possible way is what you will and should learn. Through clear instructions and commands, gentle corrections and the consistent application of punishments.

As your Mistress and Femdom, I will lead you deeper and deeper into your submission and role as my sub. You will learn through each lesson given to you how to develop in your role. And you will also learn more and more about what true submission means.

Percussion instruments - from playful to hard

I am flexible when it comes to my 'toys'. Paddles, crops, the cane or biting whips.
Depending on the intensity, each blow will not only touch your body.

No, you will also feel the blows psychologically. The combination of pain and pleasure will put your devotion, submission and strength to the test and at the same time mould and strengthen them. We will clarify in the preliminary talk whether and which marks you can and want to accept.

Golden Shower - Intimate and boundary-pushing

Golden Shower is certainly a BDSM practice that expresses the exchange of power between Mistress and her sub in an exceptionally intimate way.

It requires a high level of trust and devotion from a sub to their mistress to surrender to this desire and not just let it happen to them. Because only then can it become a positively boundary-expanding experience.

So I see this practice more as a ceremony than a practice in itself. This very intimate encounter of a special kind creates a special bond between me as a femdom and you as a sub. A bond of respect on my part for your devotion and trust on your part.

Feminisation & crossdressing - the art of transformation

Feminisation is a journey on which I guide you into a different role. A role that brings you closer to the feminine, submissive side of your personality.

By dressing accordingly, from head to toe, I will transform you into a willingly submissive female-servant. Your language, your movements and your entire behaviour serve this transformation. A temporary change in your identity from man to woman.

So I will single-mindedly and consistently transform you into my servant, my will-less little sissy. From nylon stockings to high heels. In short, I will make you into a devoted servant whose goal is to serve and submit to me as your Mistress as a sissy without reservation.

Humiliation - also verbal

While exercising the power differential between mistress and sub is a basic principle of BDSM, harsh verbal humiliation in particular is not suitable for every sub. In a certain way, this practice can have a profound effect on the psyche. Just as with the physical education practices, I will clarify with you in advance what your taboos are.

Taking your boundaries into account, I will make it clear to you through words, gestures and actions that you are nothing more than the plaything of my dominance during our time together and that you should feel and accept this deep within yourself.

By making you leave your comfort zone, I will also lead you into the absolute role of a sub through this practice of education. However, my scope of action is not limited to verbal humiliation alone. I know all kinds of ways to encourage and challenge your humility through specific actions and instructions - you can be sure of that! Control your pleasure - your climax is mine

Control your pleasure - your climax is mine

This 'technique' is also seen by many as an introduction to the world of BDSM. So I also like to use it with beginners or subs who are not yet sure how far they themselves are prepared to surrender and submit to a Mistress.

But even with experienced BDSM fans, 'tease and denial' is often not just a facet of the game of dominance and submission, but for many it is simply part of a successful and authentic session. In a way, it rounds off the experience of a BDSM dynamic and complements it.

Through the constant and ever stronger stimulation of desire, I lead you deeper and deeper into your submission and surrender. Often, at the edge of the climax, there is even more willingness to surrender and imploring devotion than through harder BDSM practices. At least that's my experience.

Emotional and Psychological Dominance as a Factor in BDSM

One of my goals when practising BDSM is that it should go far beyond physical practices. I attach great importance to the fact that as your Mistress I not only address the layers of your physical arousal, but also your mind.

So I want every BDSM session I conduct to go beyond a purely physical experience, however arousing it may be on this level,and to have a lasting effect on both our psyches.

Because I believe that even with 'play partners', which is ultimately the nature of our encounter, there can and should be an emotional connection. Because in my experience, such a connection offers considerably more opportunities to experience BDSM more intensely and deeply.

Devotion and Trust - The Basis of BDSM

Your devotion is a gift that you give me. Your trust in me as your leading and dominating Mistress and Femdom is the necessary basis of our encounter. Without these prerequisites, dominance and submission are rather empty and also unsafe mere practices in the context of BDSM.

My role is therefore first of all to create a safe space in which you can let yourself fall completely into your role as a sub. Only in this way will you be able to experience my dominance and the associated BDSM practices that I use.

I will dominate and educate you with a firm hand, but always with sensitivity and respect. I am your Mistress Amyra Chaymari - but first I am Amyra. You are my submissive sub, but first you are also a person who confides in me.

Expanding Boundaries - I Challenge You If You Let Me

Boundaries are a necessary protection in BDSM, especially for the sub. As your Mistress, I recognise the limits agreed with you in the preliminary talk. I will also recognise if you have taken on too much.

However, I know that one of the attractions of BDSM is to expand and stretch boundaries within the framework of 'Sane'. So boundaries are not just protection, they are also a tool that can make a session even more exciting and intense.

I do this by slowly but surely getting you to leave your comfort zone step by step. In this way, you will continue to grow in your role as a sub. And you will also realise that moderately crossing boundaries can also mean a kind of freedom.

Transformation Through Submission in BDSM

Submission is more than just a role in the context of BDSM. Under my guidance as your Mistress, you will also discover hidden sides of yourself through my dominance, through your surrender and submission. Aspects that might otherwise have remained hidden from you.

This is definitely a kind of transformation that expands and complements familiar thought patterns and your own self-image. It can also dissolve restrictive patterns. In my experience, BDSM is also more than just a form of erotic satisfaction in this respect - if you get involved more deeply.

The Connection Between Mistress and Sub

Many outsiders generally regard BDSM as merely an erotic role-playing game. A role-playing game in which there is a submissive and a dominant part. However, I see BDSM more as a shared path and a symbiosis between mistress and sub.

Our encounter and connection should be based on mutual respect, on mutual understanding. And on the desire to explore the different aspects of each other.

So every touch (be it playful or harder), every word (soothing or dominating) and every decision I make should be aimed at strengthening this connection between me as Mistress and you as Sub.

BDSM and Ethics - Mindful Dominance and Responsibility

As BDSM is more than just a collection of bizarre erotic practices for me, it is (to a certain extent) part of my attitude to life, so I am also concerned with ethics.

For me, this means the existence and consideration of a clear set of values. As your Mistress, it is therefore also my task not only to dominate and guide you, but also to protect you and ensure that even if you 'fly', my actions are always based on a stable and ethical foundation.

Dominance in the context of BDSM means responsibility. My role is not only to respect your boundaries and push them if necessary, but also to ensure your safety, your physical and mental health.

For me, ethical BDSM also means creating a safe space. A space in which you can let yourself go. Without fear or insecurity. Physically, emotionally and mentally.

Consensuality as The Highest Principle

Consensuality should be the basis of every interaction between me as your Mistress and you as my sub. Without your clear "yes", the nature and extent of which results from our preliminary discussion, I will not carry out any corresponding educational practices on you.

Every BDSM session we engage in is based on open discussions and transparent agreements - also with regard to possible boundary extensions.

This principle, also known as 'Safe, Sane, Consensual' (SSC) or 'Risk-Aware Consensual Kink' (RACK), therefore remains the basis on which I implement BDSM.